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Fiduciaamorous is a type of polyamorous attraction in which you can feel attraction to multiple beings at the same time and would like to be in a polyamorous relationship, but only after you fully trust that person due to trust issues, bad experiences and / or trauma, this could be classed as an Aromantic Spectrum identity because of it's nature. It's similar to Polyacor but is not quite the same

This is an exclusive orientation for those who have trust issues, bad experiences and / or trauma with polyamory / relationships

History & Coining[]

This term was coined on the 7th of July 2021 by tumblr user icarusoblivion. It was made to help explain one of their alter's experiences with polyamory, attraction as well as trauma


All of the flags were made on the same day by the same user

  • The shades of purple represent the trust that you need to have
  • The shades of blue represent the love in a polyamorous relationship
  • And the shades of grey and black represent the fear that you may have in pursuing a polyamorous relationship


"Fiducia" means trust in Latin



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