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Greyromantic Flag with Equal Stripes

Greyromantic flag with equally sized stripes

Greyromantic or Greyaromantic, also spelled Grayromantic or Grayaromantic, is a romantic orientation on the aromantic spectrum which describes those who relate to aromanticism, yet feel theat there are parts of their identity that aren't fully described by the word aromantic. It can be used as a specific identity or as an umbrella term for any aro-spec identity that isn't purely romantic, including demiromantic and others.

Greyromantic Symbol

Greyromantic symbol

Some greyromantic experiences may include:

  • Experiencing romantic attraction infrequently
  • Experiencing romantic attraction very weakly
  • Feeling romantic attraction but not desiring a romantic relationship
  • Feeling unsure about how to identify romantic attraction or how to draw the line between romantic and non-romantic, and consequently feeling unsure about having experienced it or not
  • Experiencing attraction that is only ambiguously romantic
  • Feeling alienated by romance
  • Feeling attraction only in specific circumstances
  • Finding aromanticism a useful idea, even if is isn't a perfect fit

The sexual counterpart is greysexual.

Flags[]

Greyromantic Alt

Alt flag created by Apollo

The creator of the greyromantic flag was (now deactivated) tumblr user lesbiandoe, who created it on (or before) September 22, 2014. This flag was based off of the greysexual flag made by Milith Rusignuolo and it's meanings, but using Green instead of Purple to represent Aromanticism (instead of Asexuality.) It has the following meanings:

  • Green: aromanticism
  • Gray: the transitional stage between aromanticism and alloromanticism.
  • White: alloromanticism.[1][2]

A third flag was proposed by Apollo on November 1st, 2020. The stripes do not have any meaning, but go from green to grey as a reference to the aromantic spectrum.

Alternate Flags[]

Resources[]

https://shades-of-grayro.tumblr.com/post/188819497530/hello-i-was-just-wondering-greyromantic-is

https://lgbta.wikia.org/f/p/4400000000000048212/r/4400000000000108986

https://twitter.com/GUNDHAMIRL/status/1330324628967927808